約會

    約會英文:40 個從第一句到告白的語塊

    約會的英文難在時機:想好句子的時候,話題已經過去了。這 40 個語塊照著約會的順序排 —— 開場、找話題、約下次、表達好感。

    40 個語塊
    兩隻阿塊隔著小圓桌喝咖啡聊天

    用外語約會是一個時間差問題。你想得到要說什麼,但等你把句子拼好,話題已經過去三句了 —— 而約會裡真正重要的往往不是你說了什麼,是你有沒有在那個當下接得上。

    下面 40 個語塊照約會的順序排:自我介紹與開場、找話題、約下一次、表達好感、以及禮貌地收尾。每個都附中文意思和三個例句 —— 例句刻意涵蓋不同的親近程度,因為同一句話在第一次見面和第三次見面該有的份量並不一樣。

    1. 01

      Hi, my name is ...

      初次見面時,用來介紹自己的基本方式。

      例句
      • Hi, my name is Tom. Nice to meet you.

        嗨,我叫湯姆。很高興認識你。

      • Hi, my name is Sarah. What's yours?

        嗨,我叫莎拉。你叫什麼名字?

      • Hi, my name is Ben. Are you new here?

        嗨,我叫班。你是新來的嗎?

    2. 02

      What do you like to do for fun...?

      詢問他人的興趣愛好,開啟輕鬆對話。

      例句
      • What do you like to do for fun on weekends?

        你週末喜歡做什麼來找樂子?

      • What do you like to do for fun after work?

        你下班後喜歡做什麼來找樂子?

      • What do you like to do for fun in this city?

        你在這個城市喜歡做什麼來找樂子?

    3. 03

      Are you free...?

      詢問對方是否有空,以便安排活動或約會。

      例句
      • Are you free this Friday night?

        你這週五晚上有空嗎?

      • Are you free for coffee tomorrow?

        你明天有空一起喝咖啡嗎?

      • Are you free to grab lunch with me?

        你有空和我一起吃午餐嗎?

    4. 04

      I had a great time...

      表達對某次活動或約會的享受與滿意。

      例句
      • I had a great time with you tonight.

        今晚和你在一起我很開心。

      • I had a great time at the party.

        我在派對上玩得很開心。

      • I had a great time talking to you.

        和你聊天很開心。

    5. 05

      Can I get your...?

      禮貌地詢問對方的聯絡方式,以便保持聯繫。

      例句
      • Can I get your phone number?

        我可以要你的電話號碼嗎?

      • Can I get your Instagram?

        我可以要你的Instagram嗎?

      • Can I get your email address?

        我可以要你的電子郵件地址嗎?

    6. 06

      Do you come here often...?

      詢問對方是否常來某地,作為開啟對話的方式。

      例句
      • Do you come here often for coffee?

        你常來這裡喝咖啡嗎?

      • Do you come here often on weekends?

        你週末常來這裡嗎?

      • Do you come here often to read?

        你常來這裡看書嗎?

    7. 07

      I'd love to hear more about...

      表達想了解更多對方興趣或經歷的願望。

      例句
      • I'd love to hear more about your travels.

        我很想多聽聽你旅行的事。

      • I'd love to hear more about your job.

        我很想多聽聽你工作的事。

      • I'd love to hear more about your hobbies.

        我很想多聽聽你的嗜好。

    8. 08

      Where are you from...?

      詢問對方來自哪裡,了解其背景。

      例句
      • Where are you from originally?

        你最初是哪裡人?

      • Where are you from in the city?

        你在這個城市的哪個地方?

      • Where are you from, if you don't mind me asking?

        如果你不介意的話,你來自哪裡?

    9. 09

      You seem really...

      對對方的個性或態度給予簡單的讚美。

      例句
      • You seem really friendly.

        你看起來真的很友善。

      • You seem really interesting.

        你看起來真的很有趣。

      • You seem really confident.

        你看起來真的很有自信。

    10. 10

      Do you want to grab a...?

      隨意邀請對方進行輕鬆、非正式的活動。

      例句
      • Do you want to grab a coffee sometime?

        你什麼時候想去喝杯咖啡嗎?

      • Do you want to grab a quick drink?

        你想去喝杯快酒嗎?

      • Do you want to grab a bite to eat?

        你想去吃點東西嗎?

    11. 11

      What kind of ... do you usually enjoy?

      詢問對方喜歡的類型,如音樂或電影,以了解其品味。

      例句
      • What kind of music do you usually enjoy?

        你通常喜歡什麼樣的音樂?

      • What kind of movies do you usually enjoy watching?

        你通常喜歡看什麼樣的電影?

      • What kind of books do you usually enjoy reading?

        你通常喜歡讀什麼樣的書?

    12. 12

      What do you think of...?

      詢問對方對某事物的看法或意見,開啟話題。

      例句
      • What do you think of this place?

        你覺得這個地方怎麼樣?

      • What do you think of the new cafe downtown?

        你覺得市中心那家新咖啡廳怎麼樣?

      • What do you think of the band playing tonight?

        你覺得今晚演奏的樂團怎麼樣?

    13. 13

      Do you have any exciting plans for...?

      詢問對方未來是否有特別的計畫,表達興趣。

      例句
      • Do you have any exciting plans for the weekend?

        你週末有什麼令人興奮的計畫嗎?

      • Do you have any exciting plans for your vacation?

        你的假期有什麼令人興奮的計畫嗎?

      • Do you have any exciting plans for tonight?

        你今晚有什麼令人興奮的計畫嗎?

    14. 14

      What brings you to...?

      詢問對方來到某地或參加某活動的原因,開啟對話。

      例句
      • What brings you to this party tonight?

        是什麼讓你今晚來參加這個派對的?

      • What brings you to this event?

        是什麼讓你來參加這個活動的?

      • What brings you to the city this week?

        是什麼讓你這週來到這個城市的?

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      Have you ever tried...?

      詢問對方是否嘗試過某事,尋找共同話題或推薦。

      例句
      • Have you ever tried this coffee before?

        你以前喝過這種咖啡嗎?

      • Have you ever tried the food here?

        你吃過這裡的食物嗎?

      • Have you ever tried kayaking?

        你嘗試過划獨木舟嗎?

    16. 16

      Are you more of a saver or a spender...?

      詢問對方在金錢使用上偏向儲蓄還是消費。

      例句
      • Are you more of a saver or a spender when it comes to travel?

        談到旅行,你是比較喜歡儲蓄還是花費呢?

      • I'm curious, are you more of a saver or a spender in general?

        我很好奇,你整體而言是比較喜歡儲蓄還是花費呢?

      • When you go shopping, are you more of a saver or a spender?

        你購物的時候,是比較喜歡儲蓄還是花費呢?

    17. 17

      I try to be mindful of the cost when...

      表達自己在某種情況下會注意花費。

      例句
      • I try to be mindful of the cost when choosing a restaurant for dinner.

        我選擇晚餐餐廳時,會盡量留意費用。

      • When planning a trip, I try to be mindful of the cost.

        規劃旅行時,我會盡量留意費用。

      • I try to be mindful of the cost when buying gifts for friends.

        我為朋友買禮物時,會盡量留意費用。

    18. 18

      Are you saving up for anything fun...?

      詢問對方是否有為有趣的計畫而存錢。

      例句
      • Are you saving up for anything fun, like a big trip or a new gadget?

        你是不是在為什麼有趣的計畫存錢,比如一次大旅行或新玩意?

      • I'm saving up for a new camera. Are you saving up for anything fun?

        我正在為一台新相機存錢。你有在為什麼有趣的計畫存錢嗎?

      • Are you saving up for anything fun, like a concert or a special event?

        你是不是在為什麼有趣的計畫存錢,比如一場演唱會或特別活動?

    19. 19

      How do you usually like to handle the bill...?

      詢問對方在結帳時通常如何處理付款。

      例句
      • After dinner, how do you usually like to handle the bill?

        晚餐後,你通常喜歡怎麼處理帳單呢?

      • For coffee, how do you usually like to handle the bill?

        喝咖啡時,你通常喜歡怎麼處理帳單呢?

      • When you go out with friends, how do you usually like to handle the bill?

        你和朋友出去的時候,通常喜歡怎麼處理帳單呢?

    20. 20

      I often look for activities that are more...

      表達自己傾向於尋找某種特性的活動。

      例句
      • I often look for activities that are more affordable, like picnics in the park.

        我經常尋找更實惠的活動,比如在公園野餐。

      • When going out, I often look for activities that are more relaxed and less expensive.

        外出時,我經常尋找更輕鬆且不那麼昂貴的活動。

      • I often look for activities that are more budget-friendly but still fun.

        我經常尋找更經濟實惠但仍然有趣的活動。

    21. 21

      When it comes to money, what do you value most, like...?

      詢問對方對金錢最重視的價值觀,如安全感或自由。

      例句
      • When it comes to money, what do you value most, like saving for a house or travel?

        談到錢,你最重視什麼?像是存錢買房還是旅行?

      • For me, financial security is very important. What about you?

        對我來說,財務安全很重要。你呢?

      • When it comes to money, I value freedom to do what I want.

        談到錢,我重視能自由做我想做的事。

    22. 22

      Do you tend to spend more on experiences or material things, for example...?

      詢問對方是傾向把錢花在體驗還是實質物品上。

      例句
      • Do you tend to spend more on experiences or material things, for example, concerts or new clothes?

        你傾向把錢花在體驗還是實質物品上?例如演唱會還是新衣服?

      • I definitely prefer spending on experiences like travel or trying new restaurants.

        我絕對更喜歡把錢花在旅行或嘗試新餐廳等體驗上。

      • I usually buy things that last a long time, like good quality furniture.

        我通常會買耐用的東西,例如高品質的家具。

    23. 23

      Do you usually plan your finances for the long term, like...?

      詢問對方是否有長期財務規劃的習慣,例如儲蓄。

      例句
      • Do you usually plan your finances for the long term, like for retirement or big investments?

        你通常會為長期財務做規劃嗎?像是退休或大筆投資?

      • I try to plan ahead, but sometimes it's hard to stick to a budget.

        我盡量提前規劃,但有時很難遵守預算。

      • Yes, I have a savings goal for next year, so I'm planning carefully.

        是的,我明年有個儲蓄目標,所以我正在仔細規劃。

    24. 24

      What kind of budget do you usually prefer for fun activities, such as...?

      詢問對方在娛樂活動上通常偏好哪種預算範圍。

      例句
      • What kind of budget do you usually prefer for fun activities, such as a concert or a dinner out?

        你通常喜歡為娛樂活動設定什麼樣的預算?例如聽演唱會或外出用餐?

      • I'm open to different budgets, but I like to know roughly what to expect.

        我對不同的預算都持開放態度,但我喜歡大致知道預期花費。

      • I usually prefer more affordable options for casual outings.

        對於休閒外出,我通常更喜歡負擔得起的選擇。

    25. 25

      Is it important for you to be financially independent, or...?

      詢問對方是否重視財務獨立,或對金錢自主的看法。

      例句
      • Is it important for you to be financially independent, or do you prefer to share expenses?

        對你來說,財務獨立重要嗎?還是你比較喜歡分擔開銷?

      • Financial independence is very important to me; it gives me peace of mind.

        財務獨立對我來說非常重要,它讓我感到安心。

      • I believe in being independent, but I also like the idea of supporting each other.

        我相信獨立,但我也喜歡互相支持的想法。

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      I really value ... in a relationship.

      表達你在感情中重視什麼特質或價值。

      例句
      • I really value honesty in a relationship.

        我非常重視感情中的誠實。

      • For me, I really value open communication in a relationship.

        對我來說,我非常重視感情中的開放溝通。

      • I really value mutual respect in a relationship.

        我非常重視感情中的相互尊重。

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      I'm looking for someone who is...

      描述你希望找到的伴侶具備哪些特質。

      例句
      • I'm looking for someone who is kind and understanding.

        我正在尋找一個善良且善解人意的人。

      • I'm looking for someone who is adventurous and loves to travel.

        我正在尋找一個喜歡冒險和旅行的人。

      • I'm looking for someone who is supportive of my goals.

        我正在尋找一個支持我目標的人。

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      For me, shared ... are very important.

      強調對你來說,共同擁有某些事物的重要性。

      例句
      • For me, shared interests are very important.

        對我來說,共同的興趣非常重要。

      • For me, shared values are very important in a relationship.

        對我來說,在感情中共同的價值觀非常重要。

      • For me, shared future goals are very important.

        對我來說,共同的未來目標非常重要。

    29. 29

      What do you look for in a ...?

      詢問對方在伴侶或關係中尋找什麼。

      例句
      • What do you look for in a partner?

        你在伴侶身上尋找什麼?

      • What do you look for in a long-term relationship?

        你在長期關係中尋找什麼?

      • What do you look for in a connection with someone?

        你在與某人的連結中尋找什麼?

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      I believe that ... is essential.

      表達你認為某事物在感情中是不可或缺的。

      例句
      • I believe that trust is essential for any relationship to grow.

        我認為信任對於任何關係的成長都至關重要。

      • I believe that mutual understanding is essential.

        我認為相互理解是不可或缺的。

      • I believe that honesty is essential in love.

        我認為誠實在愛情中是不可或缺的。

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      I believe family is very important for...

      我認為家庭對...非常重要

      例句
      • I believe family is very important for happiness and personal growth.

        我認為家庭對幸福和個人成長非常重要。

      • I believe family is very important for teaching us values and traditions.

        我認為家庭對教導我們價值觀和傳統非常重要。

      • I believe family is very important for providing a sense of belonging.

        我認為家庭對提供歸屬感非常重要。

    32. 32

      I'm curious about your thoughts on having children and...

      我很好奇你對生孩子和...的看法

      例句
      • I'm curious about your thoughts on having children and raising them in a big city.

        我很好奇你對生孩子以及在大城市撫養他們的看法。

      • I'm curious about your thoughts on having children and balancing work with family life.

        我很好奇你對生孩子以及平衡工作與家庭生活的看法。

      • I'm curious about your thoughts on having children and the best age to start a family.

        我很好奇你對生孩子以及組建家庭的最佳年齡的看法。

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      Growing up, my family taught me a lot about...

      成長過程中,我的家人教會了我很多關於...

      例句
      • Growing up, my family taught me a lot about kindness and helping others.

        成長過程中,我的家人教會了我很多關於善良和幫助他人的事。

      • Growing up, my family taught me a lot about hard work and perseverance.

        成長過程中,我的家人教會了我很多關於努力工作和堅持不懈的事。

      • Growing up, my family taught me a lot about the importance of honesty.

        成長過程中,我的家人教會了我很多關於誠實的重要性。

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      I really value spending time with my family, especially when we...

      我非常重視與家人相處的時間,特別是當我們...

      例句
      • I really value spending time with my family, especially when we cook together.

        我非常重視與家人相處的時間,特別是當我們一起做飯時。

      • I really value spending time with my family, especially when we visit new places.

        我非常重視與家人相處的時間,特別是當我們去新地方旅行時。

      • I really value spending time with my family, especially when we celebrate holidays.

        我非常重視與家人相處的時間,特別是當我們慶祝節日時。

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      For me, family means having a strong support system and...

      對我來說,家庭意味著擁有一個強大的支持系統,並且...

      例句
      • For me, family means having a strong support system and always having someone to talk to.

        對我來說,家庭意味著擁有一個強大的支持系統,並且總是有可以傾訴的對象。

      • For me, family means having a strong support system and a place where I feel safe.

        對我來說,家庭意味著擁有一個強大的支持系統,以及一個讓我感到安全的地方。

      • For me, family means having a strong support system and sharing all the big moments in life.

        對我來說,家庭意味著擁有一個強大的支持系統,並分享生活中的所有重要時刻。

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      What's something you feel really passionate about...?

      你對什麼事情感到特別有熱情呢?

      例句
      • What's something you feel really passionate about, like a hobby or a cause?

        你對什麼事情感到特別有熱情呢,比如一個愛好或一個事業?

      • I feel really passionate about helping animals; it's very important to me.

        我對幫助動物感到非常有熱情;這對我來說非常重要。

      • Do you have something you feel really passionate about that you love to talk about?

        你有沒有什麼你感到非常有熱情,並且喜歡談論的事情?

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      What do you value most in a friendship/relationship...?

      在友誼/關係中你最看重什麼?

      例句
      • What do you value most in a friendship, like trust or honesty?

        在友誼中你最看重什麼,比如信任或誠實?

      • For me, I value honesty and good communication most in a relationship.

        對我來說,在一段關係中我最看重誠實和良好的溝通。

      • Do you value loyalty most in a friendship, or something else?

        在友誼中你最看重忠誠,還是其他什麼?

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      What's one thing you always make time for, even when you're busy...?

      即使很忙,你總會為哪一件事騰出時間?

      例句
      • What's one thing you always make time for, even when you're busy, like reading?

        即使很忙,你總會為哪一件事騰出時間,比如閱讀?

      • Even when I'm super busy, I always make time for my morning coffee and a walk.

        即使我超級忙,我總會為我的早晨咖啡和散步騰出時間。

      • Is there one special thing you always make time for, no matter what?

        有沒有一件特別的事情,無論如何你都會為它騰出時間?

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      What kind of things do you find truly inspiring...?

      你覺得什麼樣的事情真正能激勵你?

      例句
      • What kind of things do you find truly inspiring, like nature or great stories?

        你覺得什麼樣的事情真正能激勵你,比如大自然或偉大的故事?

      • I find people who overcome challenges truly inspiring.

        我發現那些克服挑戰的人真正能激勵我。

      • Do you find art or music truly inspiring?

        你覺得藝術或音樂真正能激勵你嗎?

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      Are you someone who enjoys learning new things...?

      你是那種喜歡學習新事物的人嗎?

      例句
      • Are you someone who enjoys learning new things, like a new language or skill?

        你是那種喜歡學習新事物的人嗎,比如一門新語言或一項新技能?

      • Yes, I'm definitely someone who enjoys learning new things all the time.

        是的,我絕對是那種一直喜歡學習新事物的人。

      • Some people enjoy learning new things, others prefer familiar routines. Which are you?

        有些人喜歡學習新事物,另一些人則喜歡熟悉的例行公事。你是哪一種?

    這一頁怎麼練

    1. 1先練「接話」那一類。 開場白其實最好準備,難的是對方回答之後你要說什麼。
    2. 2注意程度差別。 I had a great time 和 I really like you 中間隔了好幾步,用錯順序比說錯文法尷尬得多。
    3. 3練到不用想。 這一頁的語塊只有在自動化之後才有用 —— 需要回想的句子,在對話裡等於沒有。

    為什麼自動化只能靠整塊記憶,看 什麼是語塊?語塊學習法完整指南。想讓稱讚說得更到位,看 英文稱讚別人。

    常見問題

    「我喜歡你」英文怎麼說比較不會太重?

    I like you 在英文裡其實比中文的「我喜歡你」更直接、更接近告白。想輕一點,用 I've really enjoyed spending time with you 或 I'd love to see you again。強度階梯大致是:I had a great time → I'd love to see you again → I really like you → I'm falling for you。

    怎麼約下一次見面才不會太急?

    把時間講具體反而比較不尷尬。Are you free next weekend? 比 We should hang out sometime 有效得多 —— 後者在英語裡幾乎是禮貌性的句子,通常不代表真的要約。母語者聽到 sometime 大多不會當真。

    想婉拒對方要怎麼講?

    英語的婉拒通常是先謝再明確:I've had a really nice time, but I don't think we're a match. 直接但不失禮。避免只說 Maybe another time —— 那在英語裡會被理解成還有機會,反而拖著對方。

    第一次見面聊什麼比較安全?

    英語系的第一次約會偏好輕鬆但具體的話題:最近在追什麼、週末都在做什麼、旅行、食物。避開薪水、前任、政治。What do you like to do for fun? 之所以是經典開場,就是因為它讓對方可以自己挑安全的深度。

    練到不用想就出得來

    ChunksEnglish 用影子跟讀和錄音比對,把語塊從「看得懂」練到「說得出」。核心功能免費。