約會

    約會英文:40 個從第一句到告白的語塊

    約會的英文難在時機:想好句子的時候,話題已經過去了。這 40 個語塊照著約會的順序排 —— 開場、找話題、約下次、表達好感。

    40 個語塊
    兩隻阿塊隔著小圓桌喝咖啡聊天

    用外語約會是一個時間差問題。你想得到要說什麼,但等你把句子拼好,話題已經過去三句了 —— 而約會裡真正重要的往往不是你說了什麼,是你有沒有在那個當下接得上。

    下面 40 個語塊照約會的順序排:自我介紹與開場、找話題、約下一次、表達好感、以及禮貌地收尾。每個都附中文意思和三個例句 —— 例句刻意涵蓋不同的親近程度,因為同一句話在第一次見面和第三次見面該有的份量並不一樣。

    1. 01

      Hi, my name is ...

      初次見面時,用來介紹自己的基本方式。

      例句
      • Hi, my name is Tom. Nice to meet you.

        嗨,我叫湯姆。很高興認識你。

      • Hi, my name is Sarah. What's yours?

        嗨,我叫莎拉。你叫什麼名字?

      • Hi, my name is Ben. Are you new here?

        嗨,我叫班。你是新來的嗎?

    2. 02

      What do you like to do for fun...?

      詢問他人的興趣愛好,開啟輕鬆對話。

      例句
      • What do you like to do for fun on weekends?

        你週末喜歡做什麼來找樂子?

      • What do you like to do for fun after work?

        你下班後喜歡做什麼來找樂子?

      • What do you like to do for fun in this city?

        你在這個城市喜歡做什麼來找樂子?

    3. 03

      Are you free...?

      詢問對方是否有空,以便安排活動或約會。

      例句
      • Are you free this Friday night?

        你這週五晚上有空嗎?

      • Are you free for coffee tomorrow?

        你明天有空一起喝咖啡嗎?

      • Are you free to grab lunch with me?

        你有空和我一起吃午餐嗎?

    4. 04

      I had a great time...

      表達對某次活動或約會的享受與滿意。

      例句
      • I had a great time with you tonight.

        今晚和你在一起我很開心。

      • I had a great time at the party.

        我在派對上玩得很開心。

      • I had a great time talking to you.

        和你聊天很開心。

    5. 05

      Can I get your...?

      禮貌地詢問對方的聯絡方式,以便保持聯繫。

      例句
      • Can I get your phone number?

        我可以要你的電話號碼嗎?

      • Can I get your Instagram?

        我可以要你的Instagram嗎?

      • Can I get your email address?

        我可以要你的電子郵件地址嗎?

    6. 06

      Do you come here often...?

      詢問對方是否常來某地,作為開啟對話的方式。

      例句
      • Do you come here often for coffee?

        你常來這裡喝咖啡嗎?

      • Do you come here often on weekends?

        你週末常來這裡嗎?

      • Do you come here often to read?

        你常來這裡看書嗎?

    7. 07

      I'd love to hear more about...

      表達想了解更多對方興趣或經歷的願望。

      例句
      • I'd love to hear more about your travels.

        我很想多聽聽你旅行的事。

      • I'd love to hear more about your job.

        我很想多聽聽你工作的事。

      • I'd love to hear more about your hobbies.

        我很想多聽聽你的嗜好。

    8. 08

      Where are you from...?

      詢問對方來自哪裡,了解其背景。

      例句
      • Where are you from originally?

        你最初是哪裡人?

      • Where are you from in the city?

        你在這個城市的哪個地方?

      • Where are you from, if you don't mind me asking?

        如果你不介意的話,你來自哪裡?

    9. 09

      You seem really...

      對對方的個性或態度給予簡單的讚美。

      例句
      • You seem really friendly.

        你看起來真的很友善。

      • You seem really interesting.

        你看起來真的很有趣。

      • You seem really confident.

        你看起來真的很有自信。

    10. 10

      Do you want to grab a...?

      隨意邀請對方進行輕鬆、非正式的活動。

      例句
      • Do you want to grab a coffee sometime?

        你什麼時候想去喝杯咖啡嗎?

      • Do you want to grab a quick drink?

        你想去喝杯快酒嗎?

      • Do you want to grab a bite to eat?

        你想去吃點東西嗎?

    11. 11

      What kind of ... do you usually enjoy?

      詢問對方喜歡的類型,如音樂或電影,以了解其品味。

      例句
      • What kind of music do you usually enjoy?

        你通常喜歡什麼樣的音樂?

      • What kind of movies do you usually enjoy watching?

        你通常喜歡看什麼樣的電影?

      • What kind of books do you usually enjoy reading?

        你通常喜歡讀什麼樣的書?

    12. 12

      What do you think of...?

      詢問對方對某事物的看法或意見,開啟話題。

      例句
      • What do you think of this place?

        你覺得這個地方怎麼樣?

      • What do you think of the new cafe downtown?

        你覺得市中心那家新咖啡廳怎麼樣?

      • What do you think of the band playing tonight?

        你覺得今晚演奏的樂團怎麼樣?

    13. 13

      Do you have any exciting plans for...?

      詢問對方未來是否有特別的計畫,表達興趣。

      例句
      • Do you have any exciting plans for the weekend?

        你週末有什麼令人興奮的計畫嗎?

      • Do you have any exciting plans for your vacation?

        你的假期有什麼令人興奮的計畫嗎?

      • Do you have any exciting plans for tonight?

        你今晚有什麼令人興奮的計畫嗎?

    14. 14

      What brings you to...?

      詢問對方來到某地或參加某活動的原因,開啟對話。

      例句
      • What brings you to this party tonight?

        是什麼讓你今晚來參加這個派對的?

      • What brings you to this event?

        是什麼讓你來參加這個活動的?

      • What brings you to the city this week?

        是什麼讓你這週來到這個城市的?

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      Have you ever tried...?

      詢問對方是否嘗試過某事,尋找共同話題或推薦。

      例句
      • Have you ever tried this coffee before?

        你以前喝過這種咖啡嗎?

      • Have you ever tried the food here?

        你吃過這裡的食物嗎?

      • Have you ever tried kayaking?

        你嘗試過划獨木舟嗎?

    16. 16

      Are you more of a saver or a spender...?

      詢問對方在金錢使用上偏向儲蓄還是消費。

      例句
      • Are you more of a saver or a spender when it comes to travel?

        談到旅行,你是比較喜歡儲蓄還是花費呢?

      • I'm curious, are you more of a saver or a spender in general?

        我很好奇,你整體而言是比較喜歡儲蓄還是花費呢?

      • When you go shopping, are you more of a saver or a spender?

        你購物的時候,是比較喜歡儲蓄還是花費呢?

    17. 17

      I try to be mindful of the cost when...

      表達自己在某種情況下會注意花費。

      例句
      • I try to be mindful of the cost when choosing a restaurant for dinner.

        我選擇晚餐餐廳時,會盡量留意費用。

      • When planning a trip, I try to be mindful of the cost.

        規劃旅行時,我會盡量留意費用。

      • I try to be mindful of the cost when buying gifts for friends.

        我為朋友買禮物時,會盡量留意費用。

    18. 18

      Are you saving up for anything fun...?

      詢問對方是否有為有趣的計畫而存錢。

      例句
      • Are you saving up for anything fun, like a big trip or a new gadget?

        你是不是在為什麼有趣的計畫存錢,比如一次大旅行或新玩意?

      • I'm saving up for a new camera. Are you saving up for anything fun?

        我正在為一台新相機存錢。你有在為什麼有趣的計畫存錢嗎?

      • Are you saving up for anything fun, like a concert or a special event?

        你是不是在為什麼有趣的計畫存錢,比如一場演唱會或特別活動?

    19. 19

      How do you usually like to handle the bill...?

      詢問對方在結帳時通常如何處理付款。

      例句
      • After dinner, how do you usually like to handle the bill?

        晚餐後,你通常喜歡怎麼處理帳單呢?

      • For coffee, how do you usually like to handle the bill?

        喝咖啡時,你通常喜歡怎麼處理帳單呢?

      • When you go out with friends, how do you usually like to handle the bill?

        你和朋友出去的時候,通常喜歡怎麼處理帳單呢?

    20. 20

      I often look for activities that are more...

      表達自己傾向於尋找某種特性的活動。

      例句
      • I often look for activities that are more affordable, like picnics in the park.

        我經常尋找更實惠的活動,比如在公園野餐。

      • When going out, I often look for activities that are more relaxed and less expensive.

        外出時,我經常尋找更輕鬆且不那麼昂貴的活動。

      • I often look for activities that are more budget-friendly but still fun.

        我經常尋找更經濟實惠但仍然有趣的活動。

    21. 21

      When it comes to money, what do you value most, like...?

      詢問對方對金錢最重視的價值觀,如安全感或自由。

      例句
      • When it comes to money, what do you value most, like saving for a house or travel?

        談到錢,你最重視什麼?像是存錢買房還是旅行?

      • For me, financial security is very important. What about you?

        對我來說,財務安全很重要。你呢?

      • When it comes to money, I value freedom to do what I want.

        談到錢,我重視能自由做我想做的事。

    22. 22

      Do you tend to spend more on experiences or material things, for example...?

      詢問對方是傾向把錢花在體驗還是實質物品上。

      例句
      • Do you tend to spend more on experiences or material things, for example, concerts or new clothes?

        你傾向把錢花在體驗還是實質物品上?例如演唱會還是新衣服?

      • I definitely prefer spending on experiences like travel or trying new restaurants.

        我絕對更喜歡把錢花在旅行或嘗試新餐廳等體驗上。

      • I usually buy things that last a long time, like good quality furniture.

        我通常會買耐用的東西,例如高品質的家具。

    23. 23

      Do you usually plan your finances for the long term, like...?

      詢問對方是否有長期財務規劃的習慣,例如儲蓄。

      例句
      • Do you usually plan your finances for the long term, like for retirement or big investments?

        你通常會為長期財務做規劃嗎?像是退休或大筆投資?

      • I try to plan ahead, but sometimes it's hard to stick to a budget.

        我盡量提前規劃,但有時很難遵守預算。

      • Yes, I have a savings goal for next year, so I'm planning carefully.

        是的,我明年有個儲蓄目標,所以我正在仔細規劃。

    24. 24

      What kind of budget do you usually prefer for fun activities, such as...?

      詢問對方在娛樂活動上通常偏好哪種預算範圍。

      例句
      • What kind of budget do you usually prefer for fun activities, such as a concert or a dinner out?

        你通常喜歡為娛樂活動設定什麼樣的預算?例如聽演唱會或外出用餐?

      • I'm open to different budgets, but I like to know roughly what to expect.

        我對不同的預算都持開放態度,但我喜歡大致知道預期花費。

      • I usually prefer more affordable options for casual outings.

        對於休閒外出,我通常更喜歡負擔得起的選擇。

    25. 25

      Is it important for you to be financially independent, or...?

      詢問對方是否重視財務獨立,或對金錢自主的看法。

      例句
      • Is it important for you to be financially independent, or do you prefer to share expenses?

        對你來說,財務獨立重要嗎?還是你比較喜歡分擔開銷?

      • Financial independence is very important to me; it gives me peace of mind.

        財務獨立對我來說非常重要,它讓我感到安心。

      • I believe in being independent, but I also like the idea of supporting each other.

        我相信獨立,但我也喜歡互相支持的想法。

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      I really value ... in a relationship.

      表達你在感情中重視什麼特質或價值。

      例句
      • I really value honesty in a relationship.

        我非常重視感情中的誠實。

      • For me, I really value open communication in a relationship.

        對我來說,我非常重視感情中的開放溝通。

      • I really value mutual respect in a relationship.

        我非常重視感情中的相互尊重。

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      I'm looking for someone who is...

      描述你希望找到的伴侶具備哪些特質。

      例句
      • I'm looking for someone who is kind and understanding.

        我正在尋找一個善良且善解人意的人。

      • I'm looking for someone who is adventurous and loves to travel.

        我正在尋找一個喜歡冒險和旅行的人。

      • I'm looking for someone who is supportive of my goals.

        我正在尋找一個支持我目標的人。

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      For me, shared ... are very important.

      強調對你來說,共同擁有某些事物的重要性。

      例句
      • For me, shared interests are very important.

        對我來說,共同的興趣非常重要。

      • For me, shared values are very important in a relationship.

        對我來說,在感情中共同的價值觀非常重要。

      • For me, shared future goals are very important.

        對我來說,共同的未來目標非常重要。

    29. 29

      What do you look for in a ...?

      詢問對方在伴侶或關係中尋找什麼。

      例句
      • What do you look for in a partner?

        你在伴侶身上尋找什麼?

      • What do you look for in a long-term relationship?

        你在長期關係中尋找什麼?

      • What do you look for in a connection with someone?

        你在與某人的連結中尋找什麼?

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      I believe that ... is essential.

      表達你認為某事物在感情中是不可或缺的。

      例句
      • I believe that trust is essential for any relationship to grow.

        我認為信任對於任何關係的成長都至關重要。

      • I believe that mutual understanding is essential.

        我認為相互理解是不可或缺的。

      • I believe that honesty is essential in love.

        我認為誠實在愛情中是不可或缺的。

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      I believe family is very important for...

      我認為家庭對...非常重要

      例句
      • I believe family is very important for happiness and personal growth.

        我認為家庭對幸福和個人成長非常重要。

      • I believe family is very important for teaching us values and traditions.

        我認為家庭對教導我們價值觀和傳統非常重要。

      • I believe family is very important for providing a sense of belonging.

        我認為家庭對提供歸屬感非常重要。

    32. 32

      I'm curious about your thoughts on having children and...

      我很好奇你對生孩子和...的看法

      例句
      • I'm curious about your thoughts on having children and raising them in a big city.

        我很好奇你對生孩子以及在大城市撫養他們的看法。

      • I'm curious about your thoughts on having children and balancing work with family life.

        我很好奇你對生孩子以及平衡工作與家庭生活的看法。

      • I'm curious about your thoughts on having children and the best age to start a family.

        我很好奇你對生孩子以及組建家庭的最佳年齡的看法。

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      Growing up, my family taught me a lot about...

      成長過程中,我的家人教會了我很多關於...

      例句
      • Growing up, my family taught me a lot about kindness and helping others.

        成長過程中,我的家人教會了我很多關於善良和幫助他人的事。

      • Growing up, my family taught me a lot about hard work and perseverance.

        成長過程中,我的家人教會了我很多關於努力工作和堅持不懈的事。

      • Growing up, my family taught me a lot about the importance of honesty.

        成長過程中,我的家人教會了我很多關於誠實的重要性。

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      I really value spending time with my family, especially when we...

      我非常重視與家人相處的時間,特別是當我們...

      例句
      • I really value spending time with my family, especially when we cook together.

        我非常重視與家人相處的時間,特別是當我們一起做飯時。

      • I really value spending time with my family, especially when we visit new places.

        我非常重視與家人相處的時間,特別是當我們去新地方旅行時。

      • I really value spending time with my family, especially when we celebrate holidays.

        我非常重視與家人相處的時間,特別是當我們慶祝節日時。

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      For me, family means having a strong support system and...

      對我來說,家庭意味著擁有一個強大的支持系統,並且...

      例句
      • For me, family means having a strong support system and always having someone to talk to.

        對我來說,家庭意味著擁有一個強大的支持系統,並且總是有可以傾訴的對象。

      • For me, family means having a strong support system and a place where I feel safe.

        對我來說,家庭意味著擁有一個強大的支持系統,以及一個讓我感到安全的地方。

      • For me, family means having a strong support system and sharing all the big moments in life.

        對我來說,家庭意味著擁有一個強大的支持系統,並分享生活中的所有重要時刻。

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      What's something you feel really passionate about...?

      你對什麼事情感到特別有熱情呢?

      例句
      • What's something you feel really passionate about, like a hobby or a cause?

        你對什麼事情感到特別有熱情呢,比如一個愛好或一個事業?

      • I feel really passionate about helping animals; it's very important to me.

        我對幫助動物感到非常有熱情;這對我來說非常重要。

      • Do you have something you feel really passionate about that you love to talk about?

        你有沒有什麼你感到非常有熱情,並且喜歡談論的事情?

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      What do you value most in a friendship/relationship...?

      在友誼/關係中你最看重什麼?

      例句
      • What do you value most in a friendship, like trust or honesty?

        在友誼中你最看重什麼,比如信任或誠實?

      • For me, I value honesty and good communication most in a relationship.

        對我來說,在一段關係中我最看重誠實和良好的溝通。

      • Do you value loyalty most in a friendship, or something else?

        在友誼中你最看重忠誠,還是其他什麼?

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      What's one thing you always make time for, even when you're busy...?

      即使很忙,你總會為哪一件事騰出時間?

      例句
      • What's one thing you always make time for, even when you're busy, like reading?

        即使很忙,你總會為哪一件事騰出時間,比如閱讀?

      • Even when I'm super busy, I always make time for my morning coffee and a walk.

        即使我超級忙,我總會為我的早晨咖啡和散步騰出時間。

      • Is there one special thing you always make time for, no matter what?

        有沒有一件特別的事情,無論如何你都會為它騰出時間?

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      What kind of things do you find truly inspiring...?

      你覺得什麼樣的事情真正能激勵你?

      例句
      • What kind of things do you find truly inspiring, like nature or great stories?

        你覺得什麼樣的事情真正能激勵你,比如大自然或偉大的故事?

      • I find people who overcome challenges truly inspiring.

        我發現那些克服挑戰的人真正能激勵我。

      • Do you find art or music truly inspiring?

        你覺得藝術或音樂真正能激勵你嗎?

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      Are you someone who enjoys learning new things...?

      你是那種喜歡學習新事物的人嗎?

      例句
      • Are you someone who enjoys learning new things, like a new language or skill?

        你是那種喜歡學習新事物的人嗎,比如一門新語言或一項新技能?

      • Yes, I'm definitely someone who enjoys learning new things all the time.

        是的,我絕對是那種一直喜歡學習新事物的人。

      • Some people enjoy learning new things, others prefer familiar routines. Which are you?

        有些人喜歡學習新事物,另一些人則喜歡熟悉的例行公事。你是哪一種?

    這一頁怎麼練

    1. 1先練「接話」那一類。 開場白其實最好準備,難的是對方回答之後你要說什麼。
    2. 2注意程度差別。 I had a great timeI really like you 中間隔了好幾步,用錯順序比說錯文法尷尬得多。
    3. 3練到不用想。 這一頁的語塊只有在自動化之後才有用 —— 需要回想的句子,在對話裡等於沒有。

    為什麼自動化只能靠整塊記憶,看 什麼是語塊?語塊學習法完整指南。想讓稱讚說得更到位,看 英文稱讚別人

    常見問題

    「我喜歡你」英文怎麼說比較不會太重?

    I like you 在英文裡其實比中文的「我喜歡你」更直接、更接近告白。想輕一點,用 I've really enjoyed spending time with youI'd love to see you again強度階梯大致是I had a great timeI'd love to see you againI really like youI'm falling for you

    怎麼約下一次見面才不會太急?

    把時間講具體反而比較不尷尬。Are you free next weekend?We should hang out sometime 有效得多 —— 後者在英語裡幾乎是禮貌性的句子,通常不代表真的要約。母語者聽到 sometime 大多不會當真。

    想婉拒對方要怎麼講?

    英語的婉拒通常是先謝再明確I've had a really nice time, but I don't think we're a match. 直接但不失禮。避免只說 Maybe another time —— 那在英語裡會被理解成還有機會,反而拖著對方。

    第一次見面聊什麼比較安全?

    英語系的第一次約會偏好輕鬆但具體的話題:最近在追什麼、週末都在做什麼、旅行、食物。避開薪水、前任、政治。What do you like to do for fun? 之所以是經典開場,就是因為它讓對方可以自己挑安全的深度。

    練到不用想就出得來

    ChunksEnglish 用影子跟讀和錄音比對,把語塊從「看得懂」練到「說得出」。核心功能免費。